Tips for Children
By taking responsibility for
your children’s online computer use, parents can greatly minimize any
potential risks of being online. Make it a family rule to:
Never give out identifying information — home address, school name, or
telephone number — in a public message such as chat or newsgroups, and
be sure you’re dealing with someone both you and your children know and
trust before giving out this information via E-mail. Think carefully
before revealing any personal information such as age, financial
information, or marital status. Do not post photographs of your children
in newsgroups or on web sites that are available to the public. Consider
using a pseudonym, avoid listing your child’s name and E-mail address in
any public directories and profiles, and find out about your ISP’s
privacy policies and exercise your options for how your personal
information may be used.
Get to know the Internet and any services your child uses. If you don’t
know how to log on, get your child to show you. Have your child show you
what he or she does online, and become familiar with all the activities
that are available online. Find out if your child has a free web-based
E-mail account, such as those offered by Hotmail and Yahoo!® , and learn
their user names and passwords.
Never allow a child to arrange a face-to-face meeting with someone they
“meet” on the Internet without parental permission. If a meeting is
arranged, make the first one in a public place, and be sure to accompany
Never respond to messages that are suggestive, obscene, belligerent,
threatening, or make you feel uncomfortable. Encourage your children to
tell you if they encounter such messages. If you or your child receives
a message that is harassing, of a sexual nature, or threatening, forward
a copy of the message to your ISP, and ask for their assistance.
Instruct your child not to click on any links that are contained in
E-mail from persons they don’t know. Such links could lead to sexually
explicit or otherwise inappropriate web sites or could be a computer
virus. If someone sends you or your children messages or images that are
filthy, indecent, lewd, or obscene with the intent to abuse, annoy,
harass, or threaten you, or if you become aware of the transmission,
use, or viewing of child pornography while online immediately report
this to the NCMEC’s CyberTipline at 1-800-843-5678 or
www.cybertipline.com. Set reasonable rules and guidelines for computer
use by your children.
Remember that people online may not be who they seem. Because you can’t
see or even hear the person it would be easy for someone to misrepresent
him- or herself. Thus someone indicating that “she” is a “12-year-old
girl” could in reality be a 40-year-old man.
Remember that everything you read online may not be true. Any offer
that’s “too good to be true” probably is. Be careful about any offers
that involve you going to a meeting, having someone visit your house, or
sending money or credit-card information.
Set reasonable rules and guidelines for computer use by your children.
(See “My Rules for Online Safety” on the back cover.) Discuss these
rules and post them near the computer as a reminder. Remember to monitor
your children’s compliance with these rules, especially when it comes to
the amount of time your children spend on the computer. A child’s
excessive use of online services or the Internet, especially late at
night, may be a clue that there is a potential problem. Remember that
personal computers and online services should not be used as electronic
Check out blocking, filtering, and ratings applications. Be sure to make
this a family activity. Consider keeping the computer in a family room
rather than the child’s bedroom. Get to know their “online friends” just
as you get to know all of their other friends. If your child has a
cellular telephone, talk with him or her about using it safely. The same
rules that apply to computer use, also apply to cellular telephones.
this with a child you love.
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